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Monday, April 02, 2007

The Crossroads

I remember reading somewhere life is all about making choices....I just found the quote interesting.....I did not attach much importance to it....I was after all in my 10th class at that time and one did not understand the extent of choices we need to take in life....At the very first crossroad of life..i chose to pursue MPC....After this choice the next decision was a logical one...I decided to pursue my engineering.....All said and done I was happy with this decision of mine and time just flew by......Before I realised, it was time to make a decision again.....and this time after much thought I decided to pursue MBA.....Now it's still in pipeline....
"No road is too long when you walk with a friend".....My all time favourite quote....The hurdles of life are bearable when you have a shoulder to lean on....If making choices at the different crossroads of life is a task in itself.....leaving behind a friend at every crossroad with each decision you make is even more tough....In the journey called life, the one thing that is constant is change.....At all the so called crossroads of life..I left behind a friend owing to the different choices we made....We chose to follow different paths to follow our destiny and realise our dreams....Life just moved on....and though we remained in touch..the magic was gone......where once upon a time we would spend hours speaking..we now spend just a few minutes on phone exchanging pleasantries......That is the extent to which we moved on.......
The only silver lining during my pathetic college life was my gang of friends...In a typical Dil Chata Hai ishtyle...we were 3 friends....and no day was gloomy when were together.......It's amazing how three different people with completely contrasting personalities can blend so easily and beautifully that every moment spent together was a beautiful art.....Every day brought with it, its share of adventure and fun and we would turn it into a masterpiece....The memories collected priceless and the experience..simply mind blowing. Did we imagine what would be our life after college??..naahhhhhh..we were too busy enjoying the present moment to even spare a thought for the future......Infact two of us decieded to pursue the same path.....alas that was not to be....
While one of us decieded that she would pursue her MS in US no matter what..we decieded that we would do our MBA in India.....while she left the shores in pursuit of her dream and her soon to be destiny..we stayed behind bidding her adieu...Our pursuit continued....and before i realised..my destiny changed overnight and I'm placed at Mumbai.....Now as the reality slowly sinks in...I passed another crossroad in my life and now we are at three different locations...wondering how quickly life can change its course and uproot you from your comfort zone and send you to explore hithero unchartered territory......Do I miss my friends????....The obvious answer is yes...because they have with them a part of my life.....a part of me which would spring forth only when I am with them......because they brought out in me the side which was unknown till they decieded to enter my life......... because they made me complete in their own way....
This is for you kp and rr.......You have with you a part of me in the same way as I have with me a part of you.......
Meeting is pleasure
Departure is pain
But as the world is round
We will meet again!!!!


18 Comments:

Blogger Unknown said...

wowwwwwwwww dat certainly reminds me of my frenzzzzzzz:(( n my college days n my share of njoyment wid 'em..... "a very gud 1 again"........bhavz(ur critic;) )

5:32 AM  
Blogger Rambo Bachalakuri said...

wow..... amazing:)

8:07 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

makes me feel happy seeing my future...n bitter too...i can only say...I L MISS MY FRENZ...

10:15 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

priya ur thinking abt life is good and after passing "The Crossroads" i also collected my past life experiences .
Its a mind blowing one and the wish u and ur DIL CHATHA HAI friends may meet soon.........

12:07 AM  
Blogger divya said...

wow!!!!!!touchwood....u moved me into tears...!!!nd dis is quite an achievement dear....coz me n gettin so emotional 4 frenz!!!!u knw wat it is.......nywaz...u rock sissy.....juss keep goin....lukin fwd to many more of such kind..........

1:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i was readin dis post of urs for my mom(dont ask me from where i got ur blogsite) nd trust me.....u left me chokin midway......midblowin post lady!!!!!a biiiiiiiiig round of applause!!!!!

1:38 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

feels so honoured wen i gotta knw dat u dedicated a blog...we 3 met by a quirk of fate but dint knw dat it wud end up as such a spl relnshp...had goose bumps all over wen u wer grindin d past thru ur blog......rr!!!!:)

7:58 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

hey priya thanks for tat!!!!though we are miles apart we are still together.we miss u tooo and i hope to see u soooon!!!!!!

11:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

priya.....u left me with tears in my eyes....truly....it was an absolutely
mind blowing post!

3:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i was mesmerized n spell bound by ur post....as xpected 4rm u alwayz....

3:52 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

priya,this takes me back to my school n coll days where i njoyed utmost........I miss all my frns...

5:35 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Hi priya, That was a nice blog.
I had the same kind of experience in my life . We were three mems a gang. We used to enjoy a lot. Now one is in US other is in bangalore and finally am in mumbai. Felt very bad of it. Missing all those days like u.:-(

5:46 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

very gud one....i will refere it to my friends..thank you very much

2:38 AM  
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12:18 AM  
Blogger Mystique said...

The same set of compliments continue here too:

It was Touching, and what makes it so, is not 'cause you penned down what you thought; But 'cause you plumbed to the part of the heart which is in despair by such incidents. It's the same thing which makes these people compliment your thoughts, 'Cause they relate themself to it too.

And the way it ends makes it soothing. Cos is doesnt end at separation, but ends on a HOPE (the thing which makes this world go round) to bring back the same old magic to life.

Cheers Oceane!!!!!

P.S. HOPE YOU get to revive your MAGIC with your those friends again :)

12:19 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Wow Priya, Superb framing of words. How cud you give feeling to your thoughts so easily? for a moment i felt that i'm part of your 'DCH' gang. But am I, naaah.....shaayad i'm not so lucky to be there!!!!!!!!!!?????.

11:53 AM  
Blogger DEEPS said...

Very well written...infact the most common part in the life of this generation is friendship..u have tailored the words and woven them with feeling in such a beautiful way, that it reminded me of my college days and friends...remarkable writing....

10:03 AM  

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